Searching for something beautiful....

He said..."If you go searching for weeds in a field, then thats what you will find"
"If you go searching for something beautiful then thats what you will find"
"But if you go with a balanbed mind set you will get a holistic view point of the truth"

I told him, everyone keeps telling me to prepare for this SA trip because it is going to be a life changing experience. I don't know how. I need a concrete example of how to do that. And he responded giving me the most reflective response ever...